谁不想奋斗之后获得成功?当然,没人。在每个人的心里都有各自为成功而奋斗的理由。实际上,每个人都有不同的方式为成功定义,不管是为了经济独立还是只为了一种成就感。
你去书店的理由之一是,那里有着6000本声称知道成功秘诀的不同书籍,成功的秘诀已成为这个地球上最受欢迎的事物之一。可笑的是,我们总习惯地认为越复杂的方法越有效,以至于忽略了简单的方法。
简单,使得凡事皆有可能,凡事都能成功。成百上千种小而简单的决定是首要的。看看孤狗及其简洁的主页,难道它们的工作是简单的吗?
在这篇文章中,我不打算爆出令人惊愕的新点子或揭示成功十大法则,我只是想让你的脑子得到一点启发,采用一些简单方法让自己回到最基础的层面上。最简单的事情常常容易被遗忘,你是否曾因遗忘某些事而错失良机呢?
- 让过去成为历史.把握今天,努力奋斗,创造美好的未来.
- 利用你的失败指引你走向成功.
- 不要试,要勇敢地去做.
- 列一个梦想清单.不管那些梦想多么难以实现,你只要坐下来写下你所有的梦想.
- 列一个目标清单并思考你要如何去实现它们.
- 利用负面的反馈意见和批评提高和完善自己.
- 如果你想在别人的手下获得成功(假如你有老板),你就得按规则办事,要不然,你就创造出你自己的规则.
- 将个人时间和工作时间分开来.
- 你的成功既取决于你平时的失败也取决与你的成就.
- 如果你不确定就让别人去做.不确定即我几乎相信.如果你不完全肯定,就让别人做吧.
- 在高效率的时间内避免被打扰.不管是工作,家庭还是独处的时间,一旦被打扰你将无法继续进行你手边的事情.
- 保证有几个小时的高效时间.在你认为的每天中的高效时段工作.
- 深呼吸以减轻压力.
- 休息娱乐和工作一样是生活的一个重要组成部分.
- 不要焦虑,焦虑只会导致不良的后果.
- 保持乐观的想法就会有好的结果.
- 当你内心的恐惧逐渐平息时别放下手边的工作.
- 不但要用心还要用脑.
- 消除怀旧情绪思考如何把握现在.
- 过去的事情已成为定局,你不可能改变它.取而代之,你应该关注现在,活在今天而非昨天.
- 别让时间控制你,你来掌控时间.
- 时间的管理是你成功的最有效工具.
- 创造策略,在同龄人之间树立可信赖的形象.
- 再次强调,忘记过去,把握现在.
以上的方法都是我自己的想法,也是我正在实践和宣传的。你尽管在你自己的评论中多添加一些想法吧。另一个成功的关键原因是采纳意见和建议,让我们为了目标用上这些方法前进吧!
英语原文:
Who doesn’t want to strive and become successful? Exactly, no one. Deep inside all of us, we have our own personal reasons for striving for success, and really, we all define success in very different ways whether it is for financial freedom or mere sense of accomplishment.
When you go to the bookstore, there is a reason that there are six thousand different books proclaiming to know the recipe for success; it’s one of the most sought after things on the planet. Ironically, we tend to think that the most complicated solutions are the most effective and we subsequently ignore the simple facts.
Simplicity is what makes everything possible and with every great feat, there were hundreds of small, simple decisions that had to take place first. Look at Google and their simplistic homepage; did simple work for them?
In this article I am not going to break some earth-shattering news or reveal a 10-step program to success. Instead, I want to refresh your brain a little, tip some simplistic approaches and get you back to basics. The simplest things are easily forgotten, have some of these fallen from your scope?
- Let go of the past. Act and apply in the present and shape up the future
- Utilize your failures as a guide towards success
- Do not try. Just do it.
- Make a list of your dreams. No matter how hard they might be to achieve, just sit down and write all your dreams down.
- Make a list of your goals and think how you can achieve them
- Use negative feedback and criticism to your advantage and better yourself
- If you want to be successful in someone else’s game (if you have a boss), play by their rules or create your own game.
- Make a list of your values. What do you value most and build your success upon them
- Keep personal time separate from business time.
- Your success depends on your failures as well as your achievements.
- If you are in doubt let someone else do it. Doubtfulness is saying I almost believe it. If you don’t fully believe it, leave it for someone else who does
- Avoid interruptions during your productivity time. Whatever it might be, work or family or some alone time, interruptions can throw you off for whatever it is you are doing.
- Determine your peak performance hours. Work at a point in day when you feel like you are most effective.
- Breath deeply and let go off any stress.
- Rest and relaxation plays as much an important part as exercise itself.
- Do not worry. All it does is gets you ready for negative outcomes.
- Think happy thoughts and there will be positive outcomes.
- Do not step back from the job at hand when fear subsides in you.
- Use your brain not only your heart.
- Eliminate emotions by letting go off the past and thinking about the present.
- What has happened in the past will most probably stay the same; you can’t change it. Instead focus on the present and live today instead of yesterday.
- Don’t let the time control you. You control the time.
- Time management is the most effective tool you can utilize and become successful.
- Create strategies and build credibility among your peers.
- Once again, forget the past and live it up in the present.
Those were my thoughts and what I practice and preach. Feel free to add more through your comments. Another key reason to becoming successful is following advice and suggestions so lets go ahead and use the comment section for that purpose.